Strategies for Dealing With Denial, Resistance, or Poor Motivation

Strategies for dealing with resistance within the Brief-TSF model all begin with an assumption that the client has an illness that is characterized by loss of control over alcohol or other drug use, which leads him or her to want to resist accepting that loss of control.

Though the only viable treatment goal from the Brief-TSF and 12 step perspective is abstinence from all alcohol, it is expected that the client will have a hard time accepting this limitation, as anyone has difficulty accepting limitation. Viewed in this light, resistance is seen as a natural part of the course of early recovery. Indeed, the Brief-TSF facilitator should be suspicious if too little resistance is encountered (a phenomenon known as compliance).

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Eschers ‘Intersection’ illustrates the split motivation of the alcoholic

The BriefTSF facilitator seeks to deal with resistance through open discussion and through a process of shaping the client’s behavior and attitudes. The methods employed for this shaping include consistent reinforcement of progress, acceptance of resistance, reframing of 12-step concepts (which are not dogmatically set), and compromise.

The client is often asked to keep an open mind, to listen, and to try to identify with one or more of the people they hear at meetings. This is then discussed in the review part of any Brief-TSF session. The client is consistently told that he or she can accept or reject an aspect of 12-step philosophy and that the fellowship can still be a vital source of support for early recovery.


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Related Reading:

Recovery: A Guide for Adult Children of Alcoholics
Understanding the High-Functioning Alcoholic: Professional Views and Personal Insights (The Praeger Series on Contemporary Health and Living)
The Complete ACOA Sourcebook: Adult Children of Alcoholics at Home, at Work and in Love
Adult Children of Alcoholics Syndrome: A Step By Step Guide To Discovery And Recovery


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